If you have ever observed a child between the ages of two and five you may have noticed how strong their WILL is. Parents certainly notice!! They know just what the want, need and desire and no matter what they WILL get it!!
It is the beginning of an attribute we favourably label as “determination” later in life. Sometime between school starting and finishing a strong will can be squeezed out of us by way of compliance.
During this time we decide what we are willing to be, have or desire and what we are not willing to be, have or desire. Which is a great thing right?
It is, especially when you realise the strength of the WILL is as strong as the WILL NOT!
So what are you NOT WILLING to be, have or desire in your life, business and leadership?
Are you NOT WILLING to fail, be poor, be rich, be beautiful, be ugly, have less, compromise……..
Energetically, what you are UNWILLING to be, have or desire WILL show up.
If you are UNWILLING to compromise, energetically, somewhere in your life you may find compromise showing up. Often.
If you are UNWILLING to be poor, energetically, do you find yourself with money or love challenges?
If you are UNWILLING to lead a lazy, unproductive people, they may actually show up!
If you are UNWILLING to be ugly, energetically do you find yourself constantly trying to impress, look good and feeling like you could look better?
What you are UNWILLING to be, have or desire puts you in energetic resistance. A state of flux if you like. Where there is resistance there is persistence. What you are UNWILLING to be, have or desire WILL show up. It shows up because of your resistance to it. Your subconscious and conscious mind are locked into the UNWILLING so pays attention to it by way of avoiding it only to have it show up to remind you that it is exactly what you do not want!
It is a ludicrous cycle! How do you stop it?
First, become aware of what you are UNWILLING to be, have or desire in all areas of life. Write it down. Identify where that very energy is showing up and acknowledge it.
Second, take yourself out of the resistance to these. Ask yourself why you are resistant? Ask if you energetically were WILLING to be, have or desire these what would it create for you?
Thirdly, be in allowance of all of these things. Once you are they will begin to disappear from your life and leadership.